During the season, I was fortunate in many ways. Steve talked to the cameras and would occasionally speak to me to say he was doing well and give me and other watchers details on his thoughts. The other mothers weren’t all as lucky. And Steve was the winner, so he could come home with less regrets, the money, and most importantly, having fully lived his dream.
Several of the Big Brother 17 mothers, as well as other family members and friends, connected on Twitter. Shelli’s and Meg’s Moms especially were life savers for me. Even though our children weren’t necessarily allies and sometimes even targeted each other, we were there to support and help one another. Several past houseguests were also good listeners and had excellent advice to give me. Whether or not you are going to follow the feeds or updates, this is only part of the internet I recommend you use, if you can. The moms were all strong and caring and the past houseguests provided priceless insight.
Staying off of the Big Brother related internet and feeds is probably a good idea, if you can do it. I definitely couldn’t. I do suggest you or someone you trust takes care of all of your son’s or daughter’s social media accounts. All kinds of things can happen, including people creating fake accounts for your son or daughter, their friends, and your family members or posting horrible things. Someone will need to keep a lookout for those fakes and block those trolls quickly. Steve is not on Instagram, but there is still a fake account there claiming to be his.
My best advice is to accept it won’t be easy no matter how prepared you think you are. Try to keep busy, exercise, eat healthy, and find a few trusted people you can talk to. The way you will feel is normal. I know how much we love our children. They are adults even though they are still our babies. This opportunity for your son or daughter is once in a lifetime so remember to celebrate for them. I was happiest when I remembered that.
To the family members, loved ones, and friends of the BB18 cast – I recommend you give extra support and encouragement to the Moms and Dads throughout the season, the kind only you can give. While you will be feeling some intense emotions, they will be feeling the same emotions tenfold. Connect with each other, too, and welcome to the Big Brother family!
Moms and Dads – this will be one of the most memorable summers of your life! I look back now and I’m so glad Steve had this amazing chance to live out his dream. I wish you and your son or daughter the best of luck this summer. Try to have fun! Please contact me if I can help you during the season on Twitter @bandleadinglady. My heart and thoughts will be with you all.
Sincerely,
Kathleen Moses
That was nice.
It really is!
What an awesome letter! Steve’s Mom seems so nice.
She seems nice. Like the type of mother would give you cookies if you were Steve’s play date.
And who would have butterscotch candies in her purse for you. :)
During last season, it was very obvious that Steve had a great relationship with his mother. He is a blessed young man to have such a supportive and caring parent. The advice and insight shared in the letter made me see some things in a different light. Very thoughtful of her to write it.
Hopefully, we’ll have a season of all new people in the house; just my preference. We’ll be entertained and have a great summer no matter who the HGs are. :D
I totally agree with everything you’ve said KSJB.
Wise words from a wise woman…my beautiful friend, K.
Thanks, gorgeous!
You’re welcome, lovely!
Steve is so fortunate to have a wise, thoughtful and loving Mom. I especially appreciated her telling us about the Mom support group that formed during the season.
I love that picture of Steve and his Mom when he was a little boy! I was so proud of Steve when he won last year…I can’t even begin to imagine how his Mom must have felt. Her heart must have been BURSTING!
I only read this article to see if she spoke about his repeated freaking out and wishing his mommy was there to help him…BB should supply pacifiers to some HGs